The Lodestar

Life is filled with challenges that affect everyone, whether visible or hidden. It is important to remember that, despite appearances, we are all navigating personal struggles. Even when others seem composed or successful, their battles might be internal and unseen. The Bible reminds us of this truth, as it encourages empathy and compassion: “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ” (Galatians 6:2). Understanding that we all face trials can cultivate more profound compassion and patience in our interactions.

Variety of Struggles

Every individual endures something, from financial difficulties to emotional turmoil. For example, someone with a successful career might be grappling with depression or anxiety, while another might be struggling with family issues behind a cheerful exterior. Even biblical figures like Job, who had everything, faced tremendous trials and loss (Job 1:21). These challenges are part of the human experience, reminding us that no one is immune to hardship.

The Importance of Compassion

Recognising that everyone faces challenges, whether minor or life-changing, can profoundly influence how we treat others. Rather than judging or assuming that someone has an easier life, we should strive to be kind, knowing that we may not fully understand their circumstances. As the apostle Paul wrote, “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another” (Ephesians 4:32). Showing empathy and understanding can ease the burdens of those around us, helping them feel less isolated in their struggles.

Personal and Collective Growth

Going through difficult times fosters resilience and growth. Challenges often force individuals to reflect, learn, and adapt, which can ultimately lead to personal development. This growth can also have a ripple effect, inspiring others going through similar issues. 2 Corinthians 1:4 states, “He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort those in any trouble.” This highlights the collective nature of human suffering and growth—by sharing our experiences and offering support, we uplift one another.

Practical Steps to Support Others

Understanding that everyone is going through something should inspire us to act. Simple gestures, like listening without judgment or offering a helping hand, can make a significant difference. A quiet word of encouragement or simply being present for someone can ease their emotional load. Jesus modelled this behaviour in his ministry, demonstrating compassion and care for all, regardless of their status or background (Matthew 9:36).

Life’s difficulties are universal, and acknowledging this fact enables us to approach each other with kindness, patience, and empathy. Whether we know it or not, everyone is carrying a burden, and by recognising this shared reality, we can foster a more supportive and understanding community. Life’s challenges may vary, but they unite us in our shared humanity.

(Thangchinlian Guite, hailing from Dorcas Veng, New Lamka, Manipur, is a dedicated local church member who serves as a Sunday School teacher within the Baptist Children's Department. With a lifelong passion for writing, he finds joy in weaving his imagination into words on paper.)