Ruth, the Moabite is the quintessential example of fidelity in relationships. Even her name stands for “comrade” or “companion,” a role portrayed throughout her life. Even though she was given an opportunity to return to her homeland and restart her life from scratch, she chose a life of struggle and uncertainty with her mother-in-law who had absolutely no mode of sustenance left. She ventured out with Naomi, to her ancestral home, people, and God, leaving a life of comfort behind.
Ruth’s loyalty to Naomi was later acknowledged by Boaz as well, in whose field she was working tirelessly for her mother-in-law. She was determined to glean as much as she could from the harvest right from the moment she started working in the field. Not only this, but she was also greatly concerned about Naomi and so she made sure to take back for her the leftover of what she was offered to eat.
Upon finding such good favour with someone in a foreign land, Ruth could have easily thought of settling down in the household of Boaz as his servant or wife, ignoring Naomi, her aged mother-in-law. However, her unparalleled loyalty towards her mother-in-law did not allow her to take any such step.
Apart from being exceptionally loyal, Ruth was also extremely obedient; she obeyed Naomi no questions asked. At a time when women could only be provided for and protected by men, Naomi had to find a husband and home for Ruth. Ruth moved as Naomi directed to find the right person who would marry her from her late husband’s family.
What is even more intriguing is the fact that she obeyed even Boaz even before they were married. Even though Boaz was the guardian-redeemer of Naomi’s kin and had the right to claim her property (including Ruth), he was considerate of his own dignity as well as that of Ruth’s. Consequently, he commanded her to sleep the night at his feet but to leave in the morning. However, Ruth was a step ahead: she woke up before anyone could recognize her. After all these events when Ruth finally returned, she was asked to wait by Naomi until the matter was settled by Boaz. Ruth patiently waited till a decision was made and finally went with Boaz as he accepted her to become his wife. Her character inspired even the women to endorse her as the one better than “seven sons” (Ruth 4:15).